Kbore, on 22 July 2011 - 07:50 PM, said:
Regarding the second article, you actually said 7 months - "Blizzard was giving out StarCraft 2 beta keys 7 months before launch
--> I wasn't even done editing my own post were I corrected my own words before you posted this. Seriously go for a walk or something.
It's after sunset and the heat index is 101 degrees. Better than the 115 it was at noon, but I'm pretty sure I'm staying indoors with the A/C blasting tonight. I'll respond to your PM as soon as I finish typing it out, but I'll lay out some context about me (since you know, I can't turn down an opportunity to talk about myself in public).
First of all, whenever I "argue" with people it's rarely driven by anger. I don't care about most things enough to get worked up about it, ennui has its pros and cons. It's a weird dichotomy, I shrug off most things, but once I get going I have this insane attention to detail. I love the mental sparring involved in debate, a shocking number of people can't/won't keep track of the things they say and if you pay attention it's easy to talk circles around them.
You ever have that friend that always tells you the same story because they forgot they already told you? You ask him how things are going, he tells you some story about his cousin getting married. Ask him how things are going two weeks later, he tells you the same thing. Now most people do this to some extent, especially if they talk to a lot of people on a daily basis or are really busy in general. For whatever reason, I don't. If I'm having a conversation with someone in a social setting, shit just sticks to my brain. It's fantastic for networking parties, weddings, etc.; give me an hour and I'll know some obscure facts about everyone in the room. (Though oddly I have to make a concerted effort to remember names, I have a 3-part system for that) For example, I'm looking to move soon and I've probably met about 30 potential roommates this month. If I saw any one of them on the street a month from now I can pick up right where I left off, knowing where they went to school, what they do for a living, how many siblings they have, even what plans they had for the weekend last time we spoke.
It's definitely not something I was born with, but I've made a habit of cultivating it over the years. My overall memory isn't exceptional either, I used to have pretty good short-term memory when I was in school but that was just from repetition and it deteriorates a little every year. I'm not ashamed to say that I use it to my advantage whenever I can. On forums/texting/email it's more of a level playing field - if someone wants to remember exactly what they said, they can always look it up. In face-to-face conversations it's an absolute slaughter. I'm usually taller than the person I'm talking to and I don't shy away from eye contact (lot of people don't have the nerve to do that for whatever reason) so I'm dealing from a position of advantage to start with. The actual language is a bit more subtle (since they won't remember every detail, better to keep it simpler and reinforce with body language, visual cues, etc.) but the effect is just the same.
There's definitely a musk of arrogance in the proceedings, the basic nature of debate is really about imposing your will on the other person. I love being able to walk into a room and just wrest control of the situation, does wonders for my giant ego. But you do have to have an irrational sense of confidence about these things because insecurity equals weakness. Have to channel your inner Alec-Baldwin-in-Glengarry-Glen-Ross. Hopefully after the "competition" is over you have enough self-awareness to reflect back on the mistakes you did make and try to do better next time. But again, there's rarely a sense of disdain for the other person. I actually gave you an out before (see post #26), you didn't take it. If you want to argue, I will go as long as you want and still shake your hand with honesty afterwards, no hard feelings. If you don't want to argue or are going to get upset, just walk away whenever you feel like it.
Kbore, on 22 July 2011 - 07:50 PM, said:
as for seeing me as a credible source. I never thought in any way , shape or form that you even gave a shit about me. Nor gave me any evidence to suggest otherwise.
I did learns something today, don't bother speaking your mind unless in guild forums. Just get nothing but grief and insults.
Going to address something from the PM here since I think it's relevant to everyone. I rarely give unsolicited critiques (@threads) for people that are in guild, especially since I've had a say in who gets to raid or not. Why? Because I don't like doing it. It's a giant pain in the ass, and I don't have some magic power that you don't. There's nothing I can figure out that you can't on your own, so to me it's just someone being too lazy to do their own research. But when asked, I've always done it because if that's what it takes for you to improve, then it's better for the guild as a whole.
ALocklikeluv's critique? He asked me to do it. The warrior thread? Savros asked me. Even my hunter thread got started when Ashley asked me to write how-to guides for classes. The rare exception has been for people that play the same class as I do (since I'm looking over my own numbers anyway, easy enough to use it as a point of comparison). Recruits get grilled because I don't know them. Once they're in, I figure the vetting process was enough and they'll be able to take care of things on their own. Of course I still go over encounter specific details as needed (hey it's good to use X during phase 2, etc.) but I trust every single person I recruited. The 15 people that are on the "raiding roster" thread right now? I've never created an @thread for any of them. So it's not just you.
But if anyone ever wants feedback, I'm always available. I even mentioned this in a post 10 days ago (see there's that annoying memory popping up again).
Sobeyet, on 12 July 2011 - 01:21 PM, said:
As always, if you have something to get off your chest I'll be around. Sometimes it can be easier to talk with someone who's not making the immediate decisions (like some people talking to Wrath when I was RL'ing, that's perfectly fine).
Also, if you're curious about your performance you can always ask me to do a detailed critique. Doesn't really matter if you're playing well, okay, or bad, everyone has things they can work on. I'm not as plugged in to encounter-specific details as I'd usually be, but I should at least be able to point you in the right direction. Won't have any direct bearing on whether you sit or not (no brownie points, just your personal edification), though obviously if you're kicking ass it's harder for Wrath to sit you. Next couple of weeks will be the toughest for me to bang out a 2,000 word review, so might take me longer than usual.